"The Perfect Match Wife Xiaoqiu" - Chapter 4, the ultimate game of re-convincing Xiaoqiu

Although I often joke with Xiaoqiu about my father, and even tease her. However, this does not mean that I want anything to happen between Xiaoqiu and my father, or that I even want to bring my father back. In my eyes, letting nature take its course and time is the truth. For example, the so-called horse power can be seen from a distance, and the merits and demerits are left to future generations to judge. They all have almost the same meaning, that is: "Let time prove everything." At that time and at that juncture, the three of them had just experienced "tribulations", "misunderstandings" and "conflicts". If they came back to get together, they would definitely be more or less There was a lot of embarrassment in Shaodu, let alone what happened. Therefore, I also understand why Xiaoqiu is so resistant to mentioning his father, and I am often "glib" and "laughing". It does not mean that I am completely "looked away", but Xiaoqiu likes to avoid it when encountering setbacks. I like to “go head-on” and dislike frustration. Therefore, I only verbally asked Xiaoqiu to write a "memoir". In fact, in my heart, I might be interested in reading it in the future, but at that time, I was not interested at all. Just like that, Xiaoqiu didn't write, and I didn't rush her. The two of them lived a "neither salt nor bland" life again, but until the National Day came, something happened that once again changed the ordinary life. . That was a few days before the National Day. sister Shuang suddenly called Xiaoqiu and said that she wanted to bring her children over to play for a few days during the holidays. of course, this surprised Xiaoqiu and I. After all, in such a fast-paced society, "having friends come from far away" and "talking by candlelight at night" have really become a luxury. However, an accident was an accident, and a surprise was a surprise. After thinking about it for a while, and out of respect for the "widow of the people's hero", I made another phone call to sister Shuang, asking her to come over with confidence. I was worried about the National Day holiday. They were traveling together, but Xiaoqiu was even more exaggerated and coerced her Mother-in-law. Then, with a hint of doubt, on the National Day a few days later, sister Shuang really came over with her child. At first glance, there is a hint of sadness in sister Shuang's polite SMile; and sister Shuang's child is carrying a Schoolbag and is quite tall anyway, almost catching up with Xiaoqiu. He probably inherited his father's good genes. of course Xiaoqiu would not miss the opportunity to show off her "sweet mouth" and immediately said with a SMile: "Oh, sister Shuang, how old is your young master? Why is he so tall?" sister Shuang looked at her son and saw her son. There was no response, so he scolded with a straight face: "auntie asked you how old you are? Why are you so rude?" At this time, sister Shuang's son lowered his accent and reluctantly replied: "11 years old." In contrast, Xiaoqiu He became a lot more enthusiastic and said again and again: "Wow, you have grown so tall at the age of 11? You will definitely be a handsome guy in the future." Unfortunately, today's children really cannot learn the politeness of the older generation in the past. Qiu was so warm and hospitable, this guy even secretly glanced at Xiao Qiu with disdain, but immediately looked away. I don’t know if it’s the same as when I was a child, shy when seeing young women. And while she was secretly paying attention to these details, sister Shuang sighed and said:"What's the use of being tall? You're not obedient at all..." At this point, sister Shuang suddenly stopped and looked at her son, then changed the topic and said: "Okay, it's the holiday now, and mom won't talk about you anymore. , This time I am taking you out for a trip to relax. This aunt and uncle are very nice people. Don't be naughty..." When sister Shuang said this, sister Shuang's son lowered his head again and seemed to frown, obviously disgusted. Don't want to talk. And Xiaoqiu quickly said: "Oh, aren't all children like this now? I think the little handsome boy is very well-behaved..." Although Xiaoqiu's words were very considerate, the little guy obviously didn't want to get involved with Xiaoqiu and sister Shuang, come on. Among the polite words from the past, Na Na said slyly: "auntie, is there a place to do Homework? I haven't finished my National Day Homework yet..." Upon hearing this, Xiaoqiu quickly praised: "Look, how hard you study, you will definitely do well in the future. There will be a future..." However, this time Xiaoqiu's hot face is completely attached to the cold buttocks, because today's enthusiaSM is not suitable for those born in 2000 at all. I saw sister Shuang's child still looking indifferent. Na Gu pretended to do his Homework. I found out later during the chat with sister Shuang. It turns out that sister Shuang's son is named Shen Zhenguo (you can tell he has a tiger dad when you hear it). Unfortunately, he has become more and more introverted recently, and he even lied and skipped classes for the first time. His uncles and uncles also reprimanded him, but to no avail. sister Shuang then thought about using a soft approach to slowly bring the child back to "the right track", so she specially came to our "unfamiliar place" to let the child change the environment and mentality. . When I heard this, I immediately understood. No wonder the little guy acted as if someone owed him money when he came over. Xiaoqiu, on the other hand, was just playing tricks and said: "sister Shuang, the children nowadays are very rebellious and cannot be forced. Tomorrow we will take him to play for a while. If the children are happy, they will naturally be obedient... "However, the reality is by no means as simple as Xiaoqiu thought. Although sister Shuang's son is only 11 years old, he obviously "lives up to his name". At such a young age, he always eavesdrops on the conversations of adults from time to time, even some of his preferences. They are all very special. For example, there is an adventure novel like "Richard IX" in the Schoolbag. The most surprising thing is that there is a picture album of American basketball player LeBron James. After noticing these details, I told Xiaoqiu in the evening that it must be a common problem among children from "single-parent families". Moreover, Xiaoqiu did not let Xiaoqiu take the children to play in the city the next day. Instead, he took them for a walk in the town, had a meal, and then bought a basketball and went to the open basketball court in the park. Because I know that it is difficult to enter the world of children, especially the world of such withdrawn and introverted children. I can only follow their interests and hobbies. The process was just as I expected. When I invited sister Shuang to eat at the restaurant, the little guy kept his head down and was eating his own food. His aloof and cold look was like a person who had eaten all the delicacies in the world and could see through the warmth and coldness of the world. The indifferent posture. No matter how much Xiaoqiu teased him, the little guy could only say "Oh, um" twice. As for me, I didn’t pay attention to this little guy at first. I deliberately chatted a lot with sister Shuang. I was just finishing my meal.When Xiaoqiu and sister Shuang were wandering around in boredom on the street, I pretended to casually chat with the little guy and started casually saying, "Look, your mother and aunt Xiaoqiu are so boring, they just know how to go shopping." …” The little guy SMiled contemptuously and said nothing. And I then said to him: "A man should be a man. Look at those men who love sports. During the holidays, they go to the stadium to either play table tennis or basketball..." At this point, the little guy became curious. He raised his head slightly, looked at me with vigilance and curiosity, and I SMiled slightly, and then said: "By the way, basketball now, no, it seems that the NBA is very popular in China. Do the students in your School generally like Curry or... Kobe or James?” Children are children after all. Under my continuous attacks, the little guy finally couldn’t help but asked: “Uncle Chen, do you like Kobe or LeBron?

Ms?" When I heard this, I deliberately said: "We adults, of course, like Kobe more, but who do you students generally like...?" At this time, when the little guy heard that adults generally didn't like his idol, his expression suddenly changed. With a black line on his face, he immediately retorted: "Who said that? Our classmates all like Kobe Curry. There are many, they are handsome. Not many people like James." When I saw that the little guy was completely on board, I took the opportunity to say, "Okay, I will take you to the basketball playground today to see what the adults are like. I like Kobe more, or I like Curry and James more..." At this time, the little guy completely got into trouble with me, and explained anxiously: "Uncle, you are mistaken. Those who like Kobe are not the same as those who like Curry. They are the same kind of fans, they only care about appearance..." Also, they only care about appearance. I SMiled and said nothing, feeling that introverted children are indeed a bit precocious. Xiaoqiu and sister Shuang, standing aside, also watched with pursed lips and snickering. Later, I took the little guy to the sporting goods store to buy a basketball, and Xiaoqiu also wanted to buy the little guy a pair of sneakers. I was shocked when I heard that, but fortunately, the little guy coyly didn’t want to reveal his As a fan, I didn't buy it. Then they drove to the basketball court. Xiaoqiu took out a badminton racket from the trunk and wanted to play badminton with sister Shuang. The little guy and I walked to the basketball court. As for Xiaobao, he was more curious about basketball at first, but soon because the basketball was too big to hold, he rebelled and joined sister Shuang and Xiaoqiu's team. In fact, not only can Xiaobao not be able to hold a basketball, but after I graduated from School, I have no time to play basketball at all, and I almost can’t play anymore. As for the little guy, he can’t even touch the basket when he flies. Therefore, the little guy and I can only watch others play in embarrassment. At most, we can just dribble the ball through our crotch. However, fortunately, Xiaojiazi has not seen much of the world, but he was still shocked by the scene of adults playing ball, and he was obviously very excited to watch there. So I also took the opportunity to say: "Look, that handsome guy is so handsome when he plays basketball. He uses Kobe's turnaround."Fallback jump shot; look, your guy is very strong, and he uses a post-up shot..." At this time, in order not to mislead the little guy, he added: "Look, how intense the fight is, no matter what jump shot is used. , or post-up singles, as long as you hit the ball in, it will look good..." As for the little guy, he was watching with concentration and grinning. It was probably his first time "watching the ball live". At this moment, Xiaoqiu and sister Shuang might be playing. Tired from playing badminton, he ran over panting and said with a playful SMile: "Hey, hubby, why don't you go play ball?" Show off your 'shoot as soon as you get the ball'. " And when I heard it, I felt the same. After all, "it's all talk but no practice." If you want to completely shock the little guy, you have to go up and show it yourself. So, I gritted my teeth and walked to the court. Then he said to his friends who were playing basketball: "Brothers, I used to play basketball in School, but now I am so exhausted from work. Today I brought my Family to the park to play for a rare time. I will waste everyone a minute. I will shoot once and review it. Let’s see how it felt back then...” People who love sports are generally more caring, and I said it more politely, so everyone stopped and waited for me to “show off”. So, I took a photo in front of everyone. He took the ball, took a breath, and then aimed and shot. The action was done in one go, and it was perfect. It was a pity that he made a three-ball shot in the end, and this made Xiaoqiu very happy. He laughed there, laughed for a while, and suddenly ran away. He came over and said disdainfully: "You're so stupid, watch me perform the tomahawk snap..." Although Xiaoqiu loves to toss, at this time, he was really a savior, because I was so embarrassed that I didn't know what to do. So, when I heard Xiaoqiu say this. Said, I immediately squatted there, let Xiaoqiu ride on my neck, and then rushed to the basket. Xiaoqiu, riding on my neck, screamed while running, and then jumped up, vigorously and heavily. The basketball went into the basket. At this time, the "audience" on the side laughed out loud at Xiaoqiu and I's performance. Xiaoqiu, on the other hand, clapped his hands and said proudly: "Humph, look at me. Handsome, Stephen Chow has a move called the Tathagata Palm that descends from the sky, and mine is called the Knuckle that descends from the sky..." funny girls are more likable, and artistic girls are even more likable. Even though I was standing by, But those tough men who play basketball still flattered them and said: "Wow, I didn't expect that beautiful women can dunk better than us... Do you have a chance to teach us? Xiaoqiu said calmly: "You don't need to be taught this. You will learn it naturally when you have a girlfriend..." "After the performance, I naturally would not miss the opportunity. I immediately took the opportunity to explain to the little guy: "Look, playing basketball is so fun. Uncle uses a fadeaway jumper, and your aunt uses a tomahawk dunk..." At this time, the guy no longer forgot to pretend to be serious, and he was so happy that he said: "The crack of the tomahawk is still beautiful..." And Xiao Qiu was so happy that he said proudly: "Your uncle's back look is useless. , look at my dunks, how handsome they are. If you want to play basketball in the future, just learn from auntie..." Upon hearing this, the little guy no longer looked as cold as before, and immediately couldn't help but ask: "auntie, which one do you like? basketball starah? " "Me...? auntie likes...", but before Xiaoqiu finished speaking, I interrupted: "Your auntie likes James. "After saying that, I winked at Xiaoqiu, and when Xiaoqiu heard this, she immediately said, "That's right. I like James better...James plays better and is more exciting..." Xiaoqiu thought for a long time before he came up with the word "powerful". In order to prevent Xiaoqiu from revealing his secret, I quickly continued: "Actually, I like a star. Not only do you have to see if he plays well, but you also have to see if his character is good. For example, although James grew up in a single-parent Family, you see how much James loves his mother, his Wife and children. James was a very good person and cared very much about his Family and the poor. In fact, your aunt is just like James, beautiful and loving. That's why the uncle married the aunt. Xiaoqiu listened with pursed lips and snickered. sister Shuang was a little confused and might not be used to my way of speaking, but the child was much simpler and asked in surprise: "Uncle, do you also know about James?" So many things? "Although the little guy asked this, I did not discuss his idol James according to the little guy's ideas, because that would become a preaching class. Instead, I changed my tone and said: "By the way, you know uncle. Why is the jump shot so inaccurate? ""Kobe's jump shots don't seem to be accurate," the little guy said childishly. "No, that's because when I was studying, my dad made me study all day long and didn't let me play, so my uncle only knew how to play. It's so bad..." I made it up randomly, and the little guy obviously couldn't react, and I immediately said: "Actually, sometimes, having a father is not necessarily a good thing. With a father, he will take care of this all day long. That can make you mad to death..." At this time, the little guy may be more sensitive to the word dad, and immediately became melancholy after hearing it, while Xiaoqiu and sister Shuang were so surprised that their faces turned pale. But I He still SMiled and said to the little guy: "Look, Kobe not only has parents, but his Family is very rich, but what can he do? It’s not that we have cut off all contact with our parents. On the contrary, James, although he has lost his father, you see how much James’ Family loves each other and how happy he and his mother are...” After I finished speaking, I observed the little guy. He was silent for a long time. I guess I was thinking about something. As for me, I decided that the reason why the little guy likes James must be because James also has no father. So, I struck the iron while the iron was hot and said, "Don't you like reading? Your classmates are laughing at you." Why do you like James? "At this time, the little guy suddenly looked at me in surprise and asked me puzzledly: "Uncle, how did you know? "Haha, because today's students all like Curry." If you like James, they must not like you..." When the little guy heard this, he lowered his head slightly, then bit his lip and said, "Yes..." "Then you don't like them, do you?" The little guy didn't answer me, and I continued: "Then why do you still care about what they say?" You all seeIf you can't afford them and don't like them, why should you care about their opinions? You said they only care about appearance, so why do you care about the opinions of these superficial people? Those people are not worth worrying about. "After listening to my words, the little guy raised his head again, his eyes seemed to have a little light, and he seemed to agree with what I meant, and I said: "Look, people who really love basketball and love life are like today. , all playing basketball enthusiastically on the playground. Look how hard they play and how happy they are. "At this time, the little guy raised his head and looked at the sweaty sports-loving young men on the playground. Then he SMiled, and I took the opportunity to say: "Remember, don't care about other people's gossip in the future. Other people's gossip is nothing. Nonsense, what matters is your actual actions..." After saying that, in order to make my words consistent with Zhongdong's actions, I took Xiaobao and played basketball with the little guy. With Bao's clumsy appearance, he finally became a "master" and enthusiastically taught Xiaobao how to play basketball. After playing all afternoon, the little guy was a little tired, so I just started. Summarizing the significance of this day, he said to the little guy: "Remember your uncle's words. After returning Home, don't care about the gossip, but take action. Just like your idol James, take action and love your mother. Be a successful person." After hearing this, the little guy didn't say anything, but the SMile on his face was obviously much brighter.