"The Perfect Match Wife Xiaoqiu" - Chapter 038, Life is a Mirror

People often say: There is nothing wrong with the world, and it is up to others to disturb themselves. However, in this sentence, the space hole is too abstract and vague. People simply can't understand it. However, if you pay careful attention, sometimes it often happens in reality. For example, some people suspect that they have a certain disease, and over time, they will be tortured and haggard. For example, a husband and Wife are often suspicious of each other, and eventually they really quarrel and even part ways. Life is actually a naked mirror. For example, when you are in love, if you chase someone crazily and ignore all the rivals in love, if you persevere, you may actually succeed. However, after getting married, they often become enemies and become frightened into thinking that every man is a strong enemy. Therefore, marriages can easily fail. But in the same way, when you are in love, what you defeat is not your enemy, but your strong self-confidence. However, after getting married, the person who defeats you may not be your love rival, but your own inferiority complex. Me too, as Xiaoqiu said, I always thought that I was defeated by my father, but is this really the case? It's just that in my own fantasy, I imagined my father to be too powerful. For example, after reading Xiaoqiu's diary, I was struggling with my father's behavior again. I felt that my father was indeed a little unreasonable. Why should my daughter-in-law be so possessive? It would be nice to have something to eat. Why do you have to play so many tricks? Sincerely, I am disrespectful and greedy. If my father had fulfilled his duty, maybe things wouldn't have happened like this. However, when I thought about it again, if my father was dull, maybe this game would not be exciting at all, and Xiaoqiu wouldn't be able to play so many tricks. So, a contradiction arises. As Xiaoqiu said, if it were me, maybe I would never play these tricks with Xiaoqiu in my whole life. To be honest, I am naturally a little repelled by "rude" sexual games. However, at this time, it reflects the selfish nature of human beings. If you don't want to play, your Wife can't play either. For example, in ancient times, after a man died, a woman had to remain chaste for him, and even had to be buried as a sacrifice. To put it bluntly, even if you die, you won’t let the person you love the most have a better time. In particular, once an ancient emperor died, the three thousand beauties in his harem would be buried alive. How terrible, how terrifying, but in reality, many of us have this mentality. We all often scold those we hate, "I won't make it easy for you even if I die." However, the fact is, we often "won't make it easy for the people we love." Although now, men don't ask for death, and women To be buried, but this mentality still exists, always longing for his own woman, who will always belong to him alone. In fact, I am similar. Although the purpose of the game at the beginning was to let Xiaoqiu experience more colorful life, but later on, I still couldn't control my jealousy. When he saw that Xiaoqiu was playing tricks with his father, which he didn't like, he began to reject it, think wildly, and become suspicious, feeling that Xiaoqiu had been conquered.​I was lying on the bed, and the more I thought about it, the more depressed I became. The rationality and instinct in my mind were like two children fighting and pinching each other. I didn’t know what was right. If Xiaoqiu didn't hide it from me, but asked for my opinion, I might not have let Xiaoqiu play these tricks with his father if I had my previous mentality. Even now, maybe intellectually, I want Xiaoqiu to experience a different life, but in terms of nature, I hope that all Xiaoqiu’s hobbies are the same as mine. After all, the common hobbies between husband and Wife are still very important. . So, maybe it is true as Xiaoqiu said, because couples need to tolerate each other, some things really cannot be done according to temperament. After all, if you love someone, you will change yourself for someone, sacrifice yourself, and change your nature to cater to the other person. . After all, I don’t like rudeness, so Xiaoqiu and I have developed a common taste for elegance. However, because of this game, his father developed a rude side in Xiaoqiu. So I was unhappy, but being unhappy was my instinctive reaction. And it is too difficult to overcome instinct. Just like now, even if Xiaoqiu "comes clean" and tells me everything, I know that the whole thing may be a misunderstanding. However, I still can't overcome my instinct and am still "grieving" and unhappy. Why am I unhappy? In fact, it is the reflection of the mirror of life. I have been thinking wildly all day long, feeling that Xiaoqiu has been conquered by her father, and thinking that her father is too powerful. So, life has indeed become like this now. Just like, a person is suspicious that he is sick, but over time, he really becomes sick. Like most men, I was suspicious of Xiaoqiu and got distracted. As a result, Xiaoqiu was really forced to lose her mind by me. Just like, there is no big deal between husband and Wife. However, it will always be because of trivial things. They can all argue for divorce. Because life is like a mirror, whatever you think about all day long is what it may become. Because if you think too much, you will believe it. Just like myself, I suspected that Xiaoqiu was distracted all day long. Even though Xiaoqiu is now trying to prove that she is not wrong, I am still immersed in my own speculation and do not want to believe Xiaoqiu's words. This is the sad part. They say that if you wear a mask for a long time, you can’t take it off. In fact, human psychology is the same. If you fantasize and speculate for a long time, you will not be able to face the real life. Just like me, I would rather immerse myself in my own fantasy than accept Xiaoqiu’s words. Maybe Xiaoqiu, from beginning to end, loved me very much, but I was still a warrior. He doesn't want to believe in his own strength, but he feels inferior and questions his relationship with Xiaoqiu. I lay in bed and thought about it for a long time before I got up, brushed my teeth, washed my face, and prepared to face a new day. However, when I faced myself in the mirror, I couldn't tell which one was true, my guess or the reality Xiaoqiu said. life.