"The Perfect Match Wife Xiaoqiu" - Chapter 032, It is easy to forgive someone, but it is difficult to eliminate the grudge in your heart

It can be easy to forgive someone, but it is difficult to get rid of the grudge in your heart. For example, there was once a very controversial incident between Cecilia Cheung and Nicholas Tse. Maybe Nicholas Tse really wanted to forgive Cecilia Cheung at the beginning, but later on, he couldn't stand the pointers from passers-by and the ridicule of public opinion, so he divorced again after many years, right? Suppose that Cecilia Cheung and Nicholas Tse moved abroad, away from these rumors and the turmoil of the world, would the fate of this golden couple be different? Will Cecilia Cheung become a good Wife and mother? At least, Cecilia Cheung is now taking good care of several children by herself. But, again, although we have always known that forgiving someone is a virtue, it is really difficult to do it. For example, that night, when Xiaoqiu came to bring boiled water to his father-in-law because he was afraid that he would be thirsty in the middle of the night, I subconsciously made a joke: "By the way, when you go back, turn off the monitor and don't steal anything." Watch me sleeping with your dad..." Originally, it was a funny joke. In the past, I might have said, you little pervert, go back and turn off the monitor, don't peek at me sleeping with your dad, and Xiaoqiu You will definitely have to play naughty nonsense with me again, and you will be tired of it for a while before you are willing to go back. However, now Xiaoqiu looked at me awkwardly, obviously a little uncomfortable, after all, I have been estranged from her for so long. Trauma cannot be repaired instantly. However, despite this, after seeing it, my father-in-law still looked a little happy and said to me: "Zhihao, I actually admire you. I have never admired anyone in my life, but I really feel that it is very difficult for you." ..." At this point, my father-in-law paused, and I was confused and said, "Dad, what's wrong with you? Do you want me to get you a glass of water?" "No, come on, let's do it tonight. Chat like friends..." After that, the father-in-law continued: "It's not your father-in-law. I drank too much tonight and talked a lot. I want to tell you that this girl Xiaoqiu did such immOral things. If it had been someone else, The man and the two families must have been in a great deal of trouble. How could they be drinking together so happily? At first, you didn’t dare to tell everyone that Xiaoqiu ran away from Home and eloped with someone. I still couldn’t understand it. I feel that there must be some ulterior reason, but now it seems that you did the right thing. After all, in this society, if a man cheats, it will be nicer if he tells it. But when a woman cheats, the neighbors will gossip about you. Die. So, it seems that you not only protected yourself, but also protected Xiaoqiu. This is a SMart person. What to do..." Although my father-in-law said that he was not drunk, one look at the excited way he said it showed that although he was not drunk, at least he was almost drunk, so I wanted to change the topic and said: "How are you doing, Brother?" My original intention was to chat with my father-in-law, but my father-in-law suddenly said angrily: "Forget about your Brother, he is getting more and more outrageous.You are no longer filial. Some time ago, on your mother’s birthday, you were still out having fun and drinking...” When I heard this, I realized that this was bad, because my Brother-in-law’s “unfilial piety” had nothing to do with me, so I quickly said: "Dad, you wronged my elder Brother. I ordered him to do this..." Before I could finish speaking, my father-in-law hurriedly asked in confusion: "What do you mean? What did you instruct? " Seeing my father-in-law's confused and impatient look, I had to confess: "For a while, I heard Xiaoqiu say that my sister-in-law and my Mother-in-law always seemed to have a little friction, and they would always argue every now and then..." " Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, women's families are not all like that, but things have gotten better in the past few years, and they don't quarrel so much..." Before I could finish my words, my father-in-law interrupted uncontrollably, and I had to wait for my father-in-law to finish speaking before I continued: "Actually, during that time, when I saw my eldest sister-in-law always quarreling with my father-in-law, I gave my eldest Brother a bad idea. I told him not to be too filial, and asked him to pretend to be like Ma Daha on purpose. I asked my eldest Brother to pretend to be a bad guy, so that my eldest sister-in-law would be easy to do. Good people, after all, no matter how badly a son does, he will always be a son in the eyes of his mother. But if the daughter-in-law does something bad, the Mother-in-law will remember it for a long time. So, I asked the eldest Brother to do something very badly on purpose, so that the sister-in-law can It’s easy to get along with my Mother-in-law, but I didn’t expect that dad, you always say that I am more filial than my eldest Brother, which makes me embarrassed. You really wronged my eldest Brother..." This time I finished speaking in one breath, and my father-in-law was stunned for a moment. Then he suddenly realized and said: "Oh, no wonder, let me tell you, that girl Dongmei has become more and more pleasing to my eyes recently, haha, no wonder, your eldest Brother has been inexplicably doing something outside for your mother's birthday recently, and it's all you. My sister-in-law is running around to serve your mother. It turns out it was your kid who came up with the idea behind her back. Not bad, not bad..." My father-in-law was a little surprised and excited, and I said awkwardly, "Actually, I was also temporarily I just casually came up with such a bad idea, Dad, please don’t blame me, and it’s best not to tell my Mother-in-law, otherwise I might not be able to eat and walk away..." After all, my father-in-law was from the previous generation, so he immediately laughed and said: "Zhihao, don't worry. Tonight is a conversation between the two of us. It's a gentleman's agreement that we will never talk about it to outsiders..." The father-in-law didn't know whether he was happy or because he drank too much. In short, he kept talking very passionately. It was surging, and I was a junior after all, so it was not easy for me to chat with my father-in-law, so I just SMiled at him awkwardly. Then, my father-in-law thought for a moment and suddenly said: "By the way, Zhihao, I am here today. Wan, let me tell you something. In the past, your mother did not agree with Xiaoqiu's marriage. You also know that I did not hide it from you. However, some time ago, I also persuaded Xiaoqiu to divorce you. I didn't want to tell you. Yours, but I see that you are a very sincere person, so I will tell you the truth tonight..." When I heard this, I felt very strange. Didn't my father-in-law always hope that Xiaoqiu and I would reconcile? Why would he secretly do so? What about persuading Xiaoqiu to get a divorce? So I muttered in confusion: “Haha, isn’t it? Dad, why would you advise me to divorce Xiaoqiu? Dad, have you drunk too much? " "NoNo, no, I didn't drink too much. At first, I felt that Xiaoqiu had done such immOral things, and you couldn't forgive her so quickly and easily. Even if you did, Xiaoqiu might not have a good life in the future. Look at Nicholas Tse and Cecilia Cheung, they couldn't talk about separation at first, but they ended up divorced..." My father-in-law's words aroused my interest, so I didn't interrupt, I just looked at my father-in-law in confusion, waiting for him to continue, The father-in-law didn't stop for long before he said: "If you can really forgive Xiaoqiu, then everyone will be happy, right? I hope you and Xiaoqiu can live a happy life together, but any man who encounters his Wife doing this will If you feel sorry for him, you will definitely be angry, right? So, I thought about it. For such a precious daughter, I couldn't let her suffer for the rest of her life, so I advised her to get divorced if she couldn't live with it anymore. It would be better for everyone to get divorced now. The worst thing is that she doesn't need Zhihao's money, just clean up and leave the house... " There is a joke called: A long time ago, lies and truth were bathing by the river. Lies were washed first and left wearing truth clothes. Truth refused to wear lies. Later, in people's eyes, only truth clothes were worn. It's a lie, but it's hard for me to accept the naked truth. Although my father-in-law is definitely 100% truthful and 100% reasonable, after hearing this, I was not only surprised, but also looked bad. Like everyone, I couldn't accept the naked truth. When my father-in-law saw that I didn't look good, he said: "At that time, Xiaoqiu said that I couldn't be sorry for you. Your life was already difficult, and it was even worse for my daughter without her mother. At that time, I He also advised Xiaoqiu that if he could compensate you a little more, just treat it as a reputation fee. Although it doesn’t sound good, Zhihao, tell me, Xiaoqiu is divorced now, and everyone will only say that your cheating is nothing. Xiaoqiu can still find a good Family. I thought at the time, if I can’t survive, An early divorce would be good for you and Xiaoqiu. I may have drunk too much tonight, but I am telling the truth, right? How can any parent not love their children...? "The more my father-in-law explained, the more panicked I became, so I stammered: "Haha, well, divorce is very easy now. There are a lot of divorces... Sometimes divorce is really good for both parties. Okay..." "Yeah, there are a lot of divorces these days, but Xiaoqiu said that I will never marry unless you are the one in this life. You two do have feelings for each other. I saw you and Xiaoqiu laughing and joking tonight as before. Yes, I'm so happy. When your mother didn't agree with Xiaoqiu to marry you, I also secretly persuaded Xiaoqiu to divorce you. Now I regret it. That girl Xiaoqiu is usually carefree and cheerful, but she just looks at people. I saw it so accurately. I just realized now that you are really a good young man. I dare to tell you so much tonight. I sincerely regard you as a friend and a good son-in-law. I will recognize you as my son-in-law in this life... "My father-in-law said so much. I don't know whether it is true or not. I wonder if he is like Xiaoqiu. He will not marry me unless he is me and regards me as his only son-in-law. Just like us, we have heard too many lies and accepted it. Without the naked truth, maybe my father-in-law told the truth after drinking, but I accepted it.Not the naked truth. So, the two of them washed up casually, drank some boiled water, chatted for a few words, and then went to bed. However, the next morning, his father-in-law might have sobered up and said awkwardly: "Zhihao, don't mind what I said to you last night. I only dare to tell you after seeing how loving you and Xiaoqiu are. So many. "Are Xiaoqiu and I in love? In fact, we are not in love now, but do I mind what my father-in-law says? of course I would mind. So when I was at work, I was very distressed. My father-in-law’s words kept lingering in my ears, especially the sentence, "Now that we are divorced, it is good for everyone. Xiaoqiu can still find a good Family." When I thought about it, it was indeed true. My Family The conditions were not good to begin with, and I was playing with fire and burning myself, which made the Family miserable. Maybe Xiaoqiu would find a good Family if she left me. Maybe she really supports me and Xiaoqiu. The more I think about it, the more shaken I become, and the more I think about it, the more doubtful I become. Can Xiaoqiu and I really be reconciled as before? Will it be like what my father-in-law said, maybe in a few years, without being able to solve the mystery in my heart, I will still divorce Xiaoqiu? Although half of what my father-in-law said was "drunk talk", it was not unreasonable. Therefore, the next day, I was always a little depressed, so that Mr. Wang said to me casually: "Xiao Chen, yesterday was Children's Day." , how are you doing?" But I replied absently: "That's it, I can't go back to my childhood..." But with such an absent-minded sentence, Wang Dong said with emotion: "Yes, I am still a child. Okay, now the children don’t cherish their childhood time at all. It’s really difficult to control. By the way, are you free tonight? Come and have a few drinks with me..." At that time, I was in Cao Ying and my heart was in Han. How could I have the time to acCompany you? director Wang was drinking, so he could not understand what he meant, so he said casually: "No, I have something else to do tonight..." director Wang then left without saying anything, and I didn't take it seriously at the time. , but then Wang Dong sent a message: "Don't think too highly of yourself. You are not more handsome or stronger than others. Do you think I am drinking with you because I have a crush on you? It's just a little bit I just like to chat with you and have a heart-to-heart talk..." Wang Dong's message made me dumbfounded, and I suddenly realized that it turned out that Wang Dong thought that I rejected her on purpose and might have hurt her self-esteem, so I quickly sent a message saying: "I'm sorry. director Wang, my dad’s leg was injured and he is in the hospital. Xiaobao has no one to take care of him, so he was a little distracted just now. I’m really sorry, I’m going to pay you 10,000 yuan...” After a while, director Wang politely replied with a message. : "Haha, I see, you are quite filial..." Although Wang Dong said that he no longer cares about it, although this little incident has passed like this, it is nothing more than adding fuel to the fire. Yes, Wang Dong is also right, Don't think too highly of yourself, my sister also said, Xiaoqiu follows you, wants money but has no money, wants no one, not even her Mother-in-law, she doesn't care about you, she doesn't really want to live with you. This series of blows made me very depressed. So, at night, when Xiaoqiu lay on the bed, I couldn't help but ask Xiaoqiu: "By the way, what do you want with me? Now that you are divorcing me, can't you still find a good Family? Others don't know youWhat did you do when you ran away from Home? Now that you are divorced, isn't it good for you? Xiaoqiu was confused by my question, and said in surprise: "husband, what's wrong with you?" I have already told you that I don’t want a divorce, and even if I get divorced, I won’t seek it out...” And I was completely disturbed by the turmoil in the world, and my head was dizzy. The words of my father-in-law, director Wang, and my sister kept thinking in my mind. I was so upset that I impatiently confessed: "I think your dad is right. Now that we are divorced, he is very good to you and me. If you can find a good Family, I don't have to worry so much. Why drag it on and wipe out all the feelings you have...? When Xiaoqiu heard this, he said in surprise: "No, why is Dad like this?" Just try to persuade me to divorce you, why are you still trying to persuade you to divorce me? I'm so angry..." Xiaoqiu said a little like a rabbit, "hopping around" in anger, and even picking up the phone and Calling To my father-in-law, when I saw this, I said impatiently: "No, your dad didn't persuade me to divorce you. It's just that he said that he persuaded you to divorce me some time ago. Maybe he drank too much and let it slip. But I think what he said is very reasonable. Divorce now is good for you and me. I can’t find a reason why we don’t divorce. Let’s get along and break up..." Xiaoqiu was stunned for a moment after hearing this. After thinking for a moment, he said: "I'm so dizzy, why is Dad like this? It's too much, why do we have to get divorced? We still have feelings for each other. "I'm tired. Maybe I still have feelings for you, but I really can't find a reason to reconcile, and I can't find a reason to continue the marriage." " I said a little impatient, a little sad, and a little worried. Xiaoqiu listened and was silent for a while before saying: "Haha, but I can find a reason to continue, because I know that I will divorce you. I can no longer find someone with such a sense of security. Does my husband know? All this time, I never thought that we would get divorced or quarrel. It is precisely because the sense of security you gave me was so strong that it made me play crazy. Although I am very courageous and good at playing, just imagine , if you didn’t give me too much sense of security, how could I dare to be so presumptuous? Even now that we are in this trouble, you have never hit me, and you can still make me laugh occasionally. I divorced you, and I will never find someone with such a sense of security in my life, do you know? A sense of security is really important to a woman. "Xiaoqiu, after thinking about it for a while, I was able to blurt out and find out the reason why she didn't want a divorce, which made me very happy. It can be said that inadvertently, my pressure suddenly became a lot less, so I took advantage of the situation and said jokingly :"Yeah. I’m so annoyed today, look at this message from director Wang...” After saying that, I showed the message from director Wang to Xiaoqiu, and Xiaoqiu looked at it for a while and said with a SMile: “Haha, hook up, meet me Are you in trouble? You see, it’s better to be your legal Wife. You can date her as much as you want... But you should be a little more proactive. How can any woman take the initiative to date you...? "Originally, I just wanted to report to Xiaoqiu what might have happened with director Wang, but I didn't expect that Xiaoqiu actually hadThe mood comforts me and gives me advice. I was surprised and said, "No, I went out for a drink with Mr. Wang. I probably drank too much. Do you mind if I don't come back all night?" Xiaoqiu thought for a moment, rolled her eyes at me and said, "Your Valentine's Day" That day, if you had told me about you and director Wang, I wouldn’t have been angry. How could I be so unreasonable? By the way, it’s better not to offend director Wang. Besides, what director Wang said was right, and you are not that great. You're such a big shot, why do you always let women take the initiative to date you?" Xiaoqiu's words left me speechless. But think about it, it's really not good to offend director Wang. At least I can't make director Wang think that I am too difficult to get along with. I have to make an appointment with director Wang another day. If nothing else, I should treat her to a drink. However, my unintentional thoughts reminded me of Xiaoqiu's mental journey when she didn't dare to offend her father and could not help but "obey and sacrifice herself." However, the thought of being unable to help but acCompany Wang Dong made me feel inexplicably excited. I wonder if Xiaoqiu felt the same way at the beginning? So, I couldn't help but ask Xiaoqiu.