"The Perfect Match Wife Xiaoqiu" - Chapter 034, Xiaoqiu has a great memory

There is a saying: Take life and death lightly, and do it if you don’t accept it. This is a manifestation of the heroic nature of a person. And Xiaoqiu also said this. Although it was quite cute and funny, it still made me feel a little bit frightened. After all, Xiaoqiu has a "criminal record", and Xiaoqiu not only "does it if she doesn't accept it," but also "runs if she doesn't accept it." Leaving Xiaobao behind and running away once can be said to be impulsive, but why did she still do it after so many twists and turns? So there is no sense of responsibility? So I asked without doubt: "I'm confused, why are you so irresponsible to Xiaobao?" Xiaoqiu was a little embarrassed by my seriousness, frowned and said: "No, my parents are very good at taking care of children." Okay, and their financial ability will not make Xiaobao suffer a lot." When I heard this, I was a little surprised and couldn't understand it, so I scolded him: "Xiaobao is the flesh and blood of your freak who was born in October. If you had thought more about Xiaobao, you wouldn't have run away from Home." Although I didn't scold Xiaoqiu, Xiaoqiu was still frightened by my scolding tone, and she thought for a moment with an embarrassed look on her face and stammered. : "But, but, in my heart, you are more important than Xiaobao..." Xiaoqiu's weird and disgusting answer made me a little overwhelmed. I thought about it in a panic and said sarcastically: "Haha, what do you mean by that? I see. You don’t love Xiaobao at all, can you have some sense of responsibility..." This time, my tone was full of strong dissatisfaction, Xiaoqiu also frowned, sighed and thought for a moment before saying: "husband "Have you forgotten? I asked you as a joke before, if your dad and I fell into the water at the same time, who would you save? You said, save me, because you and your dad don't have a good relationship..." Speaking of this, Xiaoqiu I SMiled, and although I was a little confused, it did bring back memories of the past. Xiaoqiu, like all ordinary women, likes to ask these boring questions. So I was a little impatient, but just when I was about to interrupt Xiaoqiu, Xiaoqiu said again: "Later, I ask you, if your mother and I fall into the water at the same time, who will you save?" Xiaoqiu said I was unhappy, obviously reminiscing about the past, and I finally said impatiently: "What's the matter? Have you mentioned this again?" "Wait until I finish..." After Xiaoqiu said this, I didn't Interrupting her again, Xiaoqiu continued: "I remember very clearly, you said that if your mother was about 50 years old, you both wanted to save her. The probability of wanting to save me was 52%. You wanted to save your mother." The probability is 48%. If your mother is over 60 years old, you said you would only save me..." So I was very curious at that time, so I asked you again: "If your mother was 40 years old, who would you save? When I was 40 years old, my boyfriend was not you, so I asked my ex-boyfriend to save me. I laughed to death..." Although Xiaoqiu said it happily, I was very repulsive because I didn't like to answer this kind of question at all. At the beginning, It was Xiaoqiu who forced me to answer, so I was very disgusted when I heard Xiaoqiu mention it again. So he said impatiently: "Okay, can you stop talking about this..." Xiaoqiu gave me a gentle look and said: "It's strange, why can't you talk about this? How do you think you caught me in the first place? I I really like your sincere answers, unlike other men who use sweet words to coax others.”Xiaoqiu's verbosity made me not want to talk at all. I picked up my phone and was about to watch the news. Xiaoqiu said at this time: "Maybe you forgot, I also asked you accidentally, if I have a baby in the future, I I asked you who is more important, me or the baby... I remember you jokingly saying that your Wife must be important. If the baby is gone, you can have a baby. If your Wife is gone, you have to find another one. Moreover, you also said that you should have more children just like abroad. "A baby, if you lose one accidentally, there will be another one. You also said that the baby can only live with us for a few decades, but the husband and Wife have to live together for a lifetime." Xiaoqiu's words surprised me, because I and I Xiaoqiu used to be a chatty person who had endless things to say all day long, so when I heard what Xiaoqiu said, I was really impressed. At that time, because I was very young, I hoped to have a son and a daughter. After all, people are prone to good and bad times, and having a child is not safe. If I lose a child when I am forty years old, I will cry without tears. . Just when I was trying to recall the past, Xiaoqiu said again: "I don't know who is more important between me and Xiaobao now, but in my heart, you have always been as important as Xiaobao. If either of you loses, I will feel bored." "However, if I have to lose one, I will definitely miss you the most..." Xiaoqiu said it very sincerely, which made me embarrassed to criticize her anymore, so I just said in confusion: "Since Xiaobao is so important, you are still like this?" "To her?" "What did I say to her? You are as important as Xiaobao. When I ran away from Home, I only had hatred in my mind, and I didn't say anything.

I didn’t expect Xiaobao. I just knew that it would be better for Xiaobao to be kept at Home than to stay with me. Should I take her and sleep with your dad? Also, she’s divorced , leaving Xiaobao to you, is it also a sign that I don’t love children? Because I know that you are better at educating children than me. Is this wrong? I just joked that if we both die, leave Xiaobao, Is it wrong to leave it at my parents’ house? Who should I leave it to? What do you think?” At this point, Xiaoqiu sighed and said, “Oh, I understand, I’m flawed in your eyes. It is also wrong for you to think that Xiaobao is more important than you. It is also wrong for you not to want to fight with you for Xiaobao after getting divorced. It is also wrong for you to want to die with you..." As he spoke, Xiaoqiu shed tears sadly. However, Xiaoqiu's words and Xiaoqiu's tears made me cry, so I said as if to escape: "Okay, I talked too much tonight, can I go to bed first?" Xiaoqiu didn't actually do it at this time. If she kept pestering her, she just said sadly and calmly: "Well, go to sleep. You won't be able to forgive me for a while anyway..." After saying that, Xiaoqiu turned off the light and went to sleep. But I was a little troubled. Xiaoqiu's words kept spinning in my mind. Yes, although "mother and Wife jump into the water at the same time" is an old topic, but to be honest, who said that it will never happen in life. Take, to put it simply, after giving birth to a child, many women shift most of their attention to the child, thereby ignoring the feelings of their husband. At onceFor example, women's breasts used to belong only to men, but after women give birth to children, they will be shared. Therefore, many marriages transform into "mature" and calm relationships after giving birth to children. However, it is also the beginning of a relationship between a man and a woman turning from passionate to dull. That’s because of the old topic, who is more important, children or partners. To be honest, if Xiaoqiu doesn't talk about it tonight, I really haven't thought about this issue. Do I love Xiaobao? There is no doubt that I never doted on my baby. As for Xiaoqiu, after giving birth to her, she still acted like a child and acted coquettishly with me. I often went crazy with Xiaoqiu and played such daring sexual games. It can be said that Xiaobao's arrival did not particularly change my and Xiaoqiu's personalities. Maybe it’s true as Xiaoqiu said, maybe in Xiaoqiu and I’s hearts, we are not as great as other parents who always put our children first. Just like I don’t want to answer, who would I save if my mother and Wife fell into the water? If Xiaoqiu asked me now, who is more important, my Wife or the child, I might say, have another child, I don’t know, but the two The two children together may be more important than the Wife. Although, this ancient topic gives me a headache and makes me unable to answer. But what's even more troublesome is that when you go to work, you have to face director Wang. How can you make an appointment with director Wang so that it's sincere and not rude? I thought about it for a day and thought that since Wang Dong had eaten all kinds of delicacies, like me, it was better to just invite her to a food stall for a meal. In order to show my sincerity, I deliberately waited until six or seven o'clock, then went to the food street, took a photo showing the time, and then sent it to director Wang: "sister Tong, I have been thinking about it all day today, and I feel What big scene have you never been to? Maybe it’s the food stalls, which you rarely come to. However, I don’t know if you like this kind of mixed-race place, so I waited for an hour tonight to take pictures of the scenery here. Take a look, if you think it’s lively and fun, after get off work on Saturday, I’ll invite you to come here for a meal and a few beers, and you’ll never come Home until you’re drunk...” After waiting for a while, director Wang sent back a message: "Haha, he is indeed a naughty student. He likes to run to noisy places. However, it is really fun. Let's watch it on Saturday. Come over if you have time..." director Wang's reply was flawless and very sophisticated. But the phrase "Come over when you have time" made me very unhappy. I thought if it were Xiaoqiu, he might call excitedly and say: "Wow, it's so lively, I want to come over now..." If it were Morfin, I would definitely I said politely: "Okay, I'll let you spend the money. See you on Saturday..." I compared the three women in my mind again out of boredom, and I felt that Xiaoqiu was indeed more fun. Then, just as I was about to go back, I saw a scene that made me a little depressed: a middle-aged couple, who may not have decent jobs, the man was pulling a bicycle, the woman was unkempt, and she was carrying a bag of Chinese cabbage. At this time, the woman took a look at the dazzling food stalls filled with "delicacies from the mountains and seas". She may have been distracted for a moment, but the man said very unhappily: "Oh, hurry up, go back and cook..." And the woman , just got on the back of the bicycle, maybe the sudden impact made the bicycle a little unstable, and the man said fiercely: "Can you sit better?" Working people are actually working hard, and I was a little sentimental there. But what depressed me the most was the man’s attitude. girl, I have to endure hardships and hardships with you, is it necessary to be so fierce? However, I suddenly remembered my sister’s words, Xiaoqiu followed me and endured hardships and hardships. Yes, maybe some wealthy person living in a villa will look at this bicycle couple with the same disdain as I do, and will he also say: "That Young Woman is looking at the supermarket with her children and turning on the water. She is busy with other things. "Xianxiang, why did you follow this poor guy?" When I think of this, I feel so ashamed. I feel that we are always used to blaming others and forget to reflect on ourselves. Just when I was thinking a lot, the bicycle couple staggered and disappeared into the hurried night of the city, disappearing into the laughter of people laughing and drinking. Then, with my head down, I went to where I parked my car and prepared to drive Home.