This is an era where even a dog has a chance to meet a beautiful woman! ————Preface to the article Title: I have always wanted to make a rational and concentrated study of my understanding and perception of women over the years. During the transition period, I feel that our Eastern culture has never fully understood women! I think, as far as I am concerned, now I should have certain qualifications to sort out and comment on the bad nature of women! In my few life experiences, which are not very long, I have met a lot of women. I have enjoyed the most beautiful aspects of women (before I was eleven years old, I was nestled in the arms of my biological mother, bathing in the purest and warmest maternal love in the world), but since the age of eleven, I have begun to bear the turbulent tide of women. The impact of the ugly and bad nature coming! But the warmth that mother's love gave me still could not free me from the psychological inertia of women's virtues. It was not until I was twenty-two years old that I began to truly objectively face women's inferior nature in my own life consciousness. If we take a closer look at it, we will find that almost all those who actually cause major trauma to our spirits are women! When I grew up, during my romantic relationships with women, I began to consciously explore and analyze the origins of women’s human nature. The purpose of my search and excavation of Fake's companions in many aspects and fields is actually not entirely out of carnal desire. To a large extent, it is also to find evidence to overturn the conclusion in my mind that women are evil. However, it is a pity that I have not been able to find even one person, whether it is among the women of my compatriots, Japanese women, Korean women, Russian women, Mongolian women, Thai women, or New Zealand women, who are enough to make me happy. My argument for getting out of the psychological shadow of being unable to compliment women! I am very disappointed, even a little desperate! However, life has to go on, and I still cannot escape the fate of having to marry a woman who is full of bad qualities and have offspring together in the future. Therefore, my motivation for writing this article is not to deny women, nor do I want to affect the eating, drinking and eating habits of netizens who have read this article. Its purpose is just to provide everyone with an alternative way of thinking, a new way of understanding women. . My greatest hope is that after reading this article, people can put an end to their hatred and resentment towards women for their vulgar actions, and instead understand and understand women from a rational perspective. I just hope that women will no longer be so incredible! Human beings have been running to this day, and have summed up thousands of laws of the world’s operation, but there is no law recognized by man in the world that can completely and thoroughly explain the carrier or attribute itself to which it is attached. In other words, my research and conclusions on women here can never be applied to all women. In fact, perhaps, in the corners that I have not been able to explore, there are still three or two outstanding women with beautiful hearts lurking in our society. of course, the object of my analysis does not include this one in ten million. Here, Chang will clarify his personal issues in love. In fact, the reason why ChangI would like to explain in detail the bad nature of women, especially women of my compatriots, from a rational perspective. The source of this lies in the attitude of women towards singing in recent years. The intensity of this arrogant and respectful person can surpass any male villain in life! Yes, I have experienced extreme poverty. When I was a down-and-out young man, it can be said that the women around me would not even give you a chance of luck! When I was in college, I watched Stephen Chow's movies with tears in my eyes. When I saw the down-and-out little character in the movie struggling to find a Lover in the desolate world (representative works: Tang Bohu Spots Autumn Fragrance, The King of Destruction, The King of Comedy, etc.), I had a strong feeling in my heart. resonance. In fact, Xing Ge's movies are relatively accurate in deconstructing love to a large extent. Especially the King of Destruction. In the end, the poor and incompetent little man only won the fight and gained wealth through some utopian fantasy before he won the heart of a woman; When his servant was the famous Jiangnan talent Tang Bohu, the scene of cruelly rejecting Hua An's courtship made Chang Mou sigh with regret! Tang Bohu finally won Qiu Xiang's heart not by revealing his talents, but by revealing his identity as Tang Bohu, so Qiu Xiang immediately ran into Tang's arms. Ironically, at the end of the movie, Qiuxiang is included in the same vulgar setting as Tang Bohu's previous wives. It is really a stroke of genius by the director. In terms of irony of reality, it is simply too accurate and thorough! Similarly, similar plots have entered Chang's life without any strangeness. When Chang was down and broke a few years ago, Chang felt that chasing a more beautiful woman was so, so, so, so, so difficult! When a woman rejects you, she can come up with a thousand reasons, and what is extremely surprising is that none of these reasons are related to your "lack of money." God has opened his eyes. In the past few years, Chang has had some SMall successes. Oh my God, those stunningly beautiful women who three or four years ago still thought that Chang had no hope of ever finding him in this life, miraculously appeared around him, and Almost at your fingertips! What is also extremely surprising is that when those women implicitly and shyly revealed to me why they liked my beauty, they had more than a thousand reasons, and among these reasons, there was nothing about my "richness". factor. So, everything that was originally listed as a reason for rejecting me by the woman suddenly magically turned into an attraction for Chang. For example, the woman originally thought that I was concerned about the world and felt boring and nervous, but now it has become a sign of Chang's ambition; she originally thought that Chang had an extreme personality, but now it has become a sign of Chang's personality; she originally thought that Chang had an extreme personality. Chang has a rude temperament, but now it has become evidence that Chang has masculinity. . . . . . This extremely inconsistent judgment standard has caused a serious and confusing impact on Chang's life position. In fact, China’s severe redundancy is not just a problem at the institutional level! If we carefully observe the operation of women in the country, society, Family and the behavior between men and women, we will find that women are actually playing an extremely serious corrosive role!The prosperity of the country depends on the improvement of the system and the advancement of culture. As men, we should be vigilant and self-loving and work hard. However, as women, we also need to keep pace with the times and get rid of many disadvantages in ourselves and complement men in building and Improve this country! So Chang thought that, no matter what, it was time to take a closer look at the woman! Part of the article 1. Why women are so vulgar 1. The vulgarity derived from women’s primitive instincts 2. The disadvantages brought about by women’s innate focus on sex 3. The pursuit of security - women The psychological starting point toward vulgarity 1. Why women are so vulgar 1. The vulgarity derived from women’s primitive instincts In primitive society, the human world has already had a preliminary division of labor due to gender differences. At that time, the males were responsible for hunting outside, while the females stayed in the SMall caves, responsible for guarding the weak children and controlling the Family. From this moment on, men and women began to enter two completely different worlds! A man walks into the vast nature, and his psychological space is so huge. This psychological world continues to this day, and it is the topic of us men. It is always a vast ocean and the sky is very deep and wide-ranging; while a woman’s world is only It's such a big cave, so their psychological world is still so SMall until now. Their field of vision can never go beyond a square inch, and even if their heads are hit by the world outside of it, they are still ignorant and therefore have no interest in it. Here, the problem arises, that is, the world of men is very big, and there are many opportunities for contact, choice, collision, communication, and advancement, while the world of women is too SMall, so SMall that they cannot even adjust and make progress. It is difficult to find room for betrayal, which is why women always have such short-sightedness! We see women around us who almost all make choices by looking at their toes. In fact, the preliminary division of roles between men and women due to gender differences has had a profound and even fundamental impact on the development and performance of men and women in the civilized era. It directly determines the differences between men and women in all aspects such as psychology, life orientation, quality, etc. When we understand the lifestyle of women who originally spent their lives in caves, we can easily understand why women’s vision is still so narrow today. (1) Women are extremely curious and like to fantasize. Because their space is fixed in the cave, and they know the existence of nature and heaven and earth through the men who come back from hunting and describe to her the wonders of the outside world, but they cannot go out (because there are wild beasts outside the door, the man told her of). Therefore, a woman's curiosity is consTrained by her ability, so she has no choice but to imagine and add to her understanding and yearning for the outside world through men's language.work. The fatal thing is that pure fantasy is nothing more than that, but women often rationally separate reality from fantasy. They often use fantasy situations as the criteria for their choices. (2) Women are easily deceived. Because women lack a fundamental understanding of the outside world in their genes, their SMall space makes it difficult for them to appreciate the complexity and wonders of the world. They cannot form correct standards for understanding and evaluating the truth, and cannot make correct choices. Even if a slight standard is formed (mainly through the words and deeds of parents and some indoctrination by men who have returned from abroad), it is still very thin and fragile. This characteristic may explain why many women are fucked by pig-headed men when they are young. Because the pig-headed man is intentionally or unintentionally tapping into the woman's "fantasy-loving" and "complete standards" characteristics. For example, when a woman realizes the importance of wealth, she will only use wealth as the criterion for making choices. At this time, the pig-headed man can easily abduct the woman by pretending to have a huge amount of wealth now or in the future. The human heart; when a woman realizes the importance of a man's single-mindedness in a complicated world, and simply thinks that an ugly man will inevitably lead to the illusion of emotional single-mindedness in real life, she will simply use ugliness as the basis for choice and decision-making. standard. Etc. (3) The most serious disadvantage caused by the SMall space is that it cuts off the woman's attention and concern for the outside world! In a woman's mind, the only thing that makes up her life is herself and her Family. Apart from this, everything else in the world has nothing to do with you. So we painfully discover that women are so indifferent in the face of the general social environment, and they rarely show heartfelt care for children who are not their own flesh and blood! This can explain why most stepmothers in the world are so unloving towards their stepchildren. In fact, it is unlikely that any stepmother in the world would really go out of her way to care for her stepson besides showing off in the secular world. Women are often extremely insensitive to the ruthlessness and coldness of the world, and they simply act as the source of the coldness of the world. When the woman's corrosion and obstacles to social development are explained below, this will continue to explain this in depth. 2. The disadvantages caused by women’s innate specialization in ejaculation The Australian sexology Research Center once conducted such an experiment. They found several cows, sheep, deer, pigs, dogs and other animals, and then let them mate. They found that after a male animal continues to have sex with a female animal for more than five times, they will no longer be interested in continuing to have sex with the same female partner, even if the female animal is sprayed with a seductive spray. perfume or put a flower on its head, etc. At this time, as long as a female animal is used to fuck the male animal, the male animal will quickly eliminate the fatigue just now and plunge into the battle in high spirits. Female animals generally don’t seem to have this phenomenon. They can generally accept with peace of mind continued Making Love with the same male partner, no matter how much they make.Never get tired of it. If we use the modern civilized standard of monogamy to judge this difference between males and females, humans may admire the single-mindedness of female animals. However, if we explain this problem in terms of the order of human evolution, this phenomenon cannot be regarded as an argument for women's nobility and quality, but it just reflects some bad qualities of women. From a natural biological point of view, a woman’s exclusiveness towards men does not come from her deep feelings for men, but from her animal instinct. So from this point, we can first overturn the lies that women often express about loyalty and loving you only. In fact, even when a woman is with a man she does not love, she will never get tired of him. Continuous faking. On the surface, women's ** is very suitable for the aesthetics of modern civilization, but from Darwin about things, the natural law of the survival of the fittest is a obstacle to human self -evolution! The reason why a man looks for different partners in many ways is that he always pursues an instinctive drive to optimize reproduction. That is, a man is always outside fighting with nature and others. He deeply knows the importance of being strong and capable. This is The key to his survival, his responsibility, and his successful performance of his social role is that he knows that in order to effectively extend his life, he must breed a descendant who is as strong as himself or even more capable than himself, and is a purebred descendants. But the woman has never had this consciousness in her bones. They have little contact with cruel and bloody competition, lack a thorough understanding of survival of the fittest, and have no attachment to purebreds. In their minds, the existence of life only concerns themselves and has little to do with future generations. The manifestation of this characteristic in reality is that when a woman chooses a mate, she does not take into account the man's instinctive conditions. A beautiful and high-quality woman will willingly nestle in the arms of a petty and old man without feeling the slightest uneasiness. She will also be willing to breed an inferior offspring with it. Women don’t care whether the type of man belongs to the motherland. In the woman’s mind, there are only men in the world, and there is no race, nation or country. Really, women are instinctively indifferent to the concept of country! 3. The pursuit of security - the psychological starting point for women to become vulgar. This is an issue I want to focus on. Because of the various misunderstandings and gaps between men and women today, to a large extent, men lack the necessary understanding of women’s nature and its derived behaviors. As mentioned above, from primitive society to today, women are generally responsible for keeping the house. In other words, her survival and development often depend on men’s hunting harvests outside. A woman's patience is very strong, which has been tempered by her waiting at Home for thousands of years to wait for the victorious return of a man. In fact, men also have a pursuit of security, but they have historically, or in other words, the division of labor completely tied the channels for security to themselves. Since they can only rely on themselves,And they are confident that they can achieve a sense of security, so for men, security is not a big deal; but women are different, because women inherently lack the self-confidence to realize a sense of security from any angle. Thousands of years of psychological continuity has made it impossible for women to get out of the psychological inertia of having to find a "macho man" to lean on even when society has entered an era of universal welfare! out out of the so-called "security" - in fact, the word "security" can also be replaced by "interest" or "need". A preliminary summary should include the following points: (1) A sense of security for survival and development. This includes the need to have enough food, clothing and clothing to continue survival; further, the need to eat well, wear well, live well and improve the living environment, as well as the need to keep up with the times, that is, to keep up with the trend or lead the trend
The need for flow, etc.; (2) A sense of security that comforts the spirit. Including the need for sole possession of a partner and the need to satisfy vanity in front of the same sex: here also includes the satisfaction of vanity that the image of her partner brings to her, the abundance of material life, noble social status and high quality of life that her partner can give her Everyone waits. In short, the content of this "security" is rich and has a natural hierarchy. That is to say, women first pursue a sense of security for survival and development, and then pursue a sense of security for spiritual comfort. This makes it understandable why many women in real life will ignore the fact that a rich and accomplished man already has many women, and still rush to fall into his arms and not hesitate to be one of his many women. Because she must first gain the sense of security to survive. A sense of security is necessary, and a sense of security can only depend on men. In ancient times, the basis for obtaining a sense of security lay in a man's hunting ability and the quantity of prey, and this obviously required a man's strong physique. Therefore, in ancient society, women would compete to find strong men, that is to say, In ancient times, the criteria for women to choose a mate were: strong! With the development of society to this day, physical fitness alone can no longer represent hunting ability. "Hunting" needs to be supplemented by more complicated factors. In such a civilized society, it is often not necessarily the case that strong men hunt more powerful ones. Lots of prey. Prey in economic society are represented by money, so money becomes prey, and men's ability to hunt evolves into their ability to earn money. Therefore, the standard for women to choose a mate has developed into a man's ability to make money and the amount of money he makes. In fact, the fact that today's women choose money men as spouses does not mean that women's nature has deteriorated with the development of civilized society. It is just that the standards have changed to adapt to social development. It seems that there is nothing wrong with women's pursuit of security, and the harshness of men's choices and the resulting vulgar appearance caused by their pursuit of security can also be understood. Actually, this is not the case. Although the woman chasesChasing the so-called "security" and pursuing strong or wealthy men is a natural result of thousands of years of evolution. However, the key lies in the way women as a group pursue a sense of security and safe men and the process of pursuing them. The highlighted bad roots of human nature often greatly destroy the benign and healthy operating order of this society. (This point will be discussed in detail below) In this section, we only analyze whether a woman’s sense of security must, only, and exclusively rest on a man? Is it possible that women can collectively break away from their dependence on men and pursue a sense of security independently, so that they can completely break away from the shadow of men even if they are psychologically inertia? I think my following discussion will gradually enter the state and become interesting. Chang has been thinking about the "security" that women pursue. Let us analyze whether it is impossible for women to achieve the "security" alone in this era? The answer is no! If in primitive society, hunting to maintain survival requires the hunter to be physically strong, and women happen to lack this endowment in terms of physical makeup, then we can completely understand and accept that women place their sense of security on men. This fact. However, as society has developed to this day and age, maintaining a person's survival and spiritual satisfaction has long surpassed the single element of "strength". Periods, pregnancy, and physical weakness are no longer the bottleneck factors that hinder women's survival and development. In fact, as long as a woman works hard and works hard on her knowledge, behavior, and strategies, she can achieve a "security" of survival and development on her own! So, why do our women still have to pin the establishment of "security" on the basis of finding a "macho man"? This can only be explained by the innate "laziness" of women. Otherwise, Chang couldn't find any high-sounding reason for women not to be self-reliant! “Some people may want to ask, this society still has many obstacles to women’s employment and performance. What do you want women to do? Here, I would like to talk about the independent feminist thought and movement that started in the West in the 1920s and 1930s. Yes, the transformation of human society to industrial civilization and information civilization has objectively created a space for women and men to act equally. However, due to the influence of traditional psychology, to some extent, men have to reveal themselves to support their families. Because of their vanity, they set up various artificial obstacles to women's employment. The fundamental purpose of the Western feminist movement is actually to work hard to eliminate this artificial obstacle to women in many aspects such as employment and social role playing! As for the subsequent results of sexual liberation, in fact, it was not the purpose of the feminist movement at all, but as the feminist movement continued to deepen, it won the space for women to "act", thus enabling women to take the initiative in survival and development. It’s just a release from life. sexual liberation is only a derivative of the aims of the feminist movement. But this matterAfter Qing was brought to China, it was interpreted differently by Chinese women. First of all, we found that for contemporary women in China, there are not many artificial obstacles to their employment and social activities. The traditional dogma that requires women to "obey the three virtues and four virtues" and submit to the dictates of the male world was completely broken at least during the Cultural Revolution. Mao advocated that Chinese women should "not love red clothes but love armed forces" and "women can hold up half the sky". However, to this day, Chinese politics deliberately arranges quotas for women in the selection of officials. It can be seen that the reality of Chinese society not only does not hinder women's actions, but also gives them a green light to do their actions. In order to encourage women to be active, they even deliberately accommodate and open up employment space for women at any cost. However, we regretfully found that women do not appreciate it. They seem to be more inclined to sit back and enjoy the share of men's hard work. Secondly, even though China, as an extension of ancient society, still has some slight discrimination and obstruction towards women, this society has also opened up space for women to release their grievances and win fairness. However, our women still seem to be indifferent to this. They seem not willing to really push down these obstacles, but prefer to keep these obstacles so that they can always use them to avoid the burden of responsibility, inaction and laziness. Excuse! ? Frankly speaking, Chang is not opposed to Western women being open to hairdressing, because they have the qualifications! Judging from the role of Western women in social development as a group, from the fact that Western women hold important positions in various fields of society and bear the same responsibility for social development as men, they can share their freedom with men with peace of mind. rights. But I can't stand the treatment of Chinese women! Because when we look at Chinese women, have they caught up with one ten thousandth of Western women in shouldering social responsibilities and obligations? No! So on this issue, Chinese women have made some of the same mistakes as China's reform and opening up, that is, absorbing the dross and discarding the essence. It is obviously a movement that advocates women's equal assumption of social responsibilities and obligations, but when it comes to Chinese women, it becomes a basis for advocating women's simple enjoyment. As for the main purpose of this movement, which is to have the courage to take responsibility for society, strive for self-reliance, and take the initiative in survival and development, our women deliberately avoid it! So we see many facts nowadays, that is, young women are often proud of not being able to cook. When we discuss Family life with the little woman, we will sadly see that the little woman is talking about her How proud he was when he knew nothing about housework! This is definitely a distortion of the portrayal of women. When talking about social obligations and responsibilities, Chinese women blindly avoid them. When talking about social rights and personal enjoyment, women talk about it with great enthusiaSM, and put on an expression of endless sorrow and anger to scold the male world for being mean to her. ,Alas! in addition,From the above discussion of women’s indifference to “diversity” caused by women’s animal instincts, it is also extremely unfair for women to blindly follow men’s behaviOral characteristics and deliberately pursue equality and similarity with men in this regard. Pointless! This can only show that the woman is bored and ignorant! Based on the analysis of security, we can study the thing "love" by the way. Taking this opportunity, Chang wants to completely subvert the stupid and wrong idealized understanding of "love" that people in the world have in their hearts. (Note, what Chang Mou subverts is not love, but the concept of love) Stephen Chow left a classic dialogue in Westward Journey: "Do you need a reason to love someone?" The movie does not give the answer, but Chang Mou can give it, because Chang Mou can give it. I know that "loving someone" certainly requires a reason, and there is more than one! In a society in transition, we see that countless men and women are quite confused on the issue of "love". In fact, this confusion lies in the fact that the actual love between men and women is completely inconsistent with the messages about "love" that people receive through novels, movies, etc.! In the artistic "love interpretation" that people get through various channels, it seems that love is a single element that only requires a man and a woman. Then, "love" will definitely come without any need for anything in between. Any condition other than gender difference is pure, clean and indefensible. Nothing could be further from the truth! The love in the book records human ideals, but life itself is as bad as before. True love - if we insist on Calling the attraction between men and women "love", it is also a complex and multi-element thing that carries too many vulgarities. Love has its fixed and diverse constituent elements. Among them, envy or mental Pleasure is the starting point, and security is the backbone element and foundation of "love". Security is to the structure of love as water is to the human body, accounting for more than 70% of love. Generally speaking, after the above two elements are possessed between the opposite sex, and supplemented by the friction of time and space, a vivid "love" will be born! After clearly analyzing the components of "love", we can easily understand the many sad or happy phenomena that occur between men and women in the world. Furthermore, when we once again face the various faces that women have towards us that arise and change around the so-called "love", we have an additional understanding in our hearts and an additional struggle for life. The motivation to fight! Nowadays, many people hate Qiong Yao and criticize her excessive interpretation of love. However, one thing is certain, no matter how sad Grandma Qiong is, she has never misunderstood the formation of love. Look at the male protagonists in her novels, which one lacks the necessary elements of love that I mentioned above? No. Including many dramas about talented people and beautiful women that have been produced in China since ancient times, they have not deviated from this rule. Only young men, rich men, and geniuses in some fields can enjoy the so-called Cupid's sword thrown by women. However, compared to ordinary men in reality, this thing is actuallyIt is elusive! At this point, many people want to question, according to this theory, how to explain the majority of poor and humble couples in life who stay together in poverty and helplessness? Haha, this phenomenon is caused by this factor. That is, the sense of security that women pursue can be now or in the future. When a woman fails to find the sense of security she has now, she often settles for the next best thing and looks for a union among men who do not have the strength to give her a sense of security now, but who she bets can bring her a sense of security in the future. companion. Although it is an unfortunate fact that most women lose their bets, the driving factor for her to cling to that man still cannot deny the core role of security in the combination of the two! In this way, we can even conclude that there are only three types of women in the world: one is a SMall group of women who have obtained love and a sense of security, and the other two are those who have not obtained love and a sense of security. One type is a woman who lost a bet and failed to gain a sense of security. The other type is a woman who has simply given up the pursuit of a sense of security and simply found a man to make do with it. people. There is a song by Li Wen. He sings about how love is such a big curse, so magical. It talks about the Pleasure a woman feels when the great joy of love hits her heart, and her thoughts and feelings that are destroyed by that Pleasure. The reason why love occurs is as if love is completely accidental, unreasonable, and incredible! In fact, how can love be magical? If it is magical, then why does such a miracle rarely or never happen to a migrant worker and a beautiful city woman? If we carefully dig into the trajectory of a woman’s pursuit of “love”, we will find that the occurrence of love is not only not a random whim, but is clearly an organized, premeditated and vulgar reaction of the woman! In this way, many women who oppose Chang's point of view can understand why Chang was not favored by women because of his poverty despite his good looks. Because those women thought that Chang could not give her a sense of security. Not only was she unable to do so at the time, , and may not be able to in the future. Even if some people believe that singing can give her a sense of security in the future, after meeting a man who can already give her a sense of security at that time, the woman will still leave me without hesitation. After all, between "the security of the present" and "the security of the unpredictable future", women will still choose the former rationally and secularly.
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